How to get more deep sleep? Try these 8 sleep tips

Clinically reviewed by Dr. Chris Mosunic, PhD, RD, CDCES, MBA

Discover how to get deeper, more restful sleep with our deep sleep tips. Plus, learn about the stages of sleep and the reasons you might not be sleeping deeply.

When it comes to sleep, quality is just as important as quantity. Deep sleep plays a pivotal role in getting the sort of rest that truly rejuvenates your body and mind. So if you’re struggling to cope with the stresses and strains of day-to-day life, you might be dealing with a deep sleep deficit. 

To understand the importance of deep sleep (and how to get more of it), it helps to get a handle on the stages of sleep. So buckle up for a speedy tour of the sleep stages.

Understanding the stages of sleep

Stage 1 of sleep

This is the stage where you’re just starting to nod off, teetering between being awake and asleep. It’s the first brief stage of sleep, which lasts a mere 5 to 10 minutes. During this time, your brain churns out slow theta waves, science-talk for ‘just falling asleep.’ Ever felt a sudden jerk or like you’re falling while drifting off? That’s stage 1 sleep at play, which can be easily interrupted and full of surprises.

Stage 2 of sleep

Next up on the journey to deep sleep is stage 2. This is where things start to get quiet. Your heart rate slows down, your body temperature dips, and eye movement begins to still. It’s a crucial stage of sleep, taking up about 45-50% of your total snooze time. Even though your brain waves slow down, sporadic bursts of activity known as ‘sleep spindles’ pop up. These assist with memory processing and learning. 

Stages 3 & 4 of sleep

Now, we’re in the coveted ‘deep sleep’ zone, also known as ‘slow-wave’ sleep. It’s the ultimate repair shop. Your body heals, grows, and sorts through the day’s events (and memories take shape). Your brain waves drop into a slow, deliberate delta rhythm, which makes it harder to wake you up. Even loud noises might fail to stir you. And if you do wake up during this stage, you’re likely to feel disoriented for a few moments. If you’ve ever woken up in the middle of a deep afternoon nap and felt confused and groggy, you’ve been in the deep sleep zone.

REM (Rapid Eye Movement) sleep

Last but by no means least — the REM sleep stage. This stage kicks in about 90 minutes after you first drift off and reoccurs every 90 minutes. Despite being in deep sleep, your brain starts buzzing with activity. Your eyes flit back and forth under their lids (hence the name), your breath comes in fast, irregular spurts, and your heart and blood pressure levels rise. Dreams come alive during REM sleep. Curiously enough, your muscles go slack to keep you from acting out your dream-world adventures.

This sleep journey from stage 1 to REM repeats throughout the night, with REM periods stretching out and deepening towards morning. Each step is vital for various body and brain functions, but it’s deep sleep that we really want to maximize. It’s crucial for our wellbeing but is often the trickiest to nail down.

Why is deep sleep so important?

Deep sleep is like the all-star player in your night’s lineup. It has a starring role in several key bodily functions. In fact, many of the restorative functions of sleep occur predominantly during this phase. 

Here are all the ways deep sleep supports your body and mind. 

  • Deep sleep helps your body repair and regenerate: During deep sleep, your body gets to work on repairs and regeneration. It’s like your body’s maintenance crew clocks in for the night shift. Growth hormones, which play a crucial role in tissue repair and healing, are released during this stage. If you’ve had an intense workout or a physically demanding day, deep sleep helps your body recover.

  • Deep sleep helps you process memory and learning: Ever wonder how your brain processes the massive amount of information we receive daily? Deep sleep has a significant role to play here. During this phase, the brain works on memory consolidation, taking the raw data of the day and sorting it into long-term memory. It’s like saving an important file on a computer – you don’t want to lose those precious memories or new learnings.

  • Deep sleep may contribute to creativity: Problems that seem insurmountable during the day might appear less daunting after a good night’s sleep. That’s not a coincidence. The deep sleep stage allows your brain to reorganize and restructure, which can boost creativity and support problem-solving skills.

  • Deep sleep is associated with emotion regulation and processing: Research suggests that a lack of deep sleep could make it harder to recognize important social cues and process emotional information accurately, impacting our interactions and relationships. You know those days when everything feels a bit ‘off,’ emotionally and you’re unsure why? Lack of deep sleep could be a factor.

  • Deep sleep supports your metabolism and glucose control: Deep sleep plays a critical role in managing your body's glucose levels, helping to keep your metabolism running smoothly. Research indicates that a lack of deep sleep can lead to reduced insulin sensitivity, potentially increasing the risk of developing type 2 diabetes down the line.

  • Deep sleep boosts your immune system: During deep sleep, the immune system is hard at work producing a protein called cytokines, some of which help the body fight off infections, inflammation, and stress. Additionally, certain disease-fighting substances are released or created during sleep, and our bodies need these substances to combat foreign invaders such as bacteria and viruses.

Unfortunately, getting enough deep sleep can be a challenge. So, what are the common factors stopping us from getting the deep sleep our bodies and brains need?

Common reasons for lack of deep sleep

Recognizing the factors affecting your deep sleep is a significant step in improving sleep quality. We all have unique sleep disruptors, and pinpointing them helps you tailor strategies that’ll counter their effects. Here are a few common culprits:

  • Offbeat sleep drive: Your body runs on a 24-hour cycle— the circadian rhythm that dictates your sleep and wakefulness. If this rhythm gets disrupted, be it from jet lag, shift work, or an inconsistent sleep schedule, it can meddle with your deep sleep phase.

  • Sleep disorders: Conditions like sleep apnea, insomnia, and restless leg syndrome are notorious for disrupting sleep quality. With sleep apnea, for instance, people often find themselves pulled out of the deep sleep stage as they struggle to breathe.

  • Stress and anxiety: The classic troublemakers. When your mind is busy worrying or ticking over tasks, it’s extra tricky to relax and slip into the deeper sleep stages. That’s because your arousal system is stuck in the ‘on’ mode.

  • Substances and medications: An evening glass of wine might seem like a sleep aid, but alcohol can scramble your normal sleep cycle, and side-step deep sleep time. Similarly, while caffeine may help you stay alert during the day, its effects can linger for hours, making it harder to slip into deep sleep. Certain medications can also be sleep saboteurs. Although before you consider stopping any prescription medications, please talk to your healthcare provider.

  • Poor sleep hygiene: Hygiene doesn’t just mean brushing your teeth or keeping your body clean, it also extends to sleep. Sleep hygiene refers to the habits and practices that make it easier to get consistent, quality sleep. Factors like a noisy sleeping environment, late-night screen time, or an uncomfortable mattress can all throw roadblocks in the path of deep sleep.

8 tips for deeper sleep

Here are some practical tips to help you sleep more deeply.

1. Get moving 

Physical activity isn’t just good for your heart, it can also ease you into deeper sleep. Exercise helps regulate your internal body clock, so that you may start to feel a natural pull toward rest when bedtime rolls around. Both cardio and strength training are beneficial, but remember to ease into more gentle activities as bedtime nears. Don’t know where to start? Try the Daily Move with Mel Mah.

2. Fiber up 

Nutrient-packed foods like fruits, vegetables, and whole grains are filled with fiber that can have a positive impact on sleep. Fiber can help to stabilize your blood sugar levels, which in turn, benefits sleep. Studies suggest that high-fiber diets can lead to more time spent in the restorative stages of deep sleep.

3. Hold off on caffeine 

Caffeine can linger in your system for hours, disrupting your sleep cycle. It’s not just in coffee—soda, chocolate, and even some pain relievers contain caffeine. If sleep’s elusive, consider limiting your caffeine fix to the morning hours.

4. Establish a bedtime routine

Consistency is key. Going to bed and waking up at the same time daily reinforces your body’s sleep-wake cycle. It essentially helps you fall asleep and stay asleep for the night. Blend calming activities like reading or meditation into your nightly routine to signal to your body that it’s time to unwind.

5. Tune into white noise

Background noise can be a big-time sleep disruptor. The solution? White noise. The steady, unchanging sound of white noise can block out other sounds and help create a serene environment that’s more conducive to sleep. And you’re not limited to white noise. There’s also pink noise, brown noise, blue noise.. and many more! Find the perfect ‘noise’ to suit your sleep here. There are also other soothing sounds like soft rain or forest birds that work to create a peaceful backdrop that nudges you toward sleep.

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6. Try relaxation exercises

If stress or anxiety keeps you up, relaxation exercises might be the ticket. Techniques like progressive muscle relaxation or guided imagery can help ease your mind and prep you for sleep. Sleep Stories may also relax you. And they aren’t just for kids. Adults can join in too. These stories help you shift gears from the chaos of the daily grind to a state of rest and relaxation.

7. Keep stress and anxiety in check

Unchecked stress or anxiety can wreak havoc on your sleep. Exploring stress management techniques might be helpful. This could include yoga, breathing exercises, meditation, or even a chat with a trusted friend or mental health professional.

 

8. Spruce up your sleep space

Your bedroom should be a sanctuary for sleep. A cool, quiet, and dark room can enhance the quality of your sleep. Consider earplugs, an eye mask, or a white noise machine. A high-quality mattress and pillows can make a world of difference to your sleep but there are plenty of shifts you can make to sleepify your space without having to spend money.

Remember, deep sleep doesn’t happen overnight. The key is taking small, consistent steps to improve your sleep hygiene. Begin with a change or two, and once those feel like second nature, bring more into the mix.

Reaching that crucial stage of deep sleep consistently isn’t a race. It’s about embracing long-term changes that can enhance the quality of your life. Sure, it might take a while to see the results, but each step you take will nudge you towards deeper sleep at night and more invigorated days.


Your questions on deep sleep, answered

What is the average deep sleep per night?

On average, most adults get about one to two hours of deep sleep per eight-hour night, which makes up about 10-25% of total sleep time. But the amount of deep sleep can vary widely from person to person. It’s important to note that the distribution of sleep stages changes throughout the night, with deep sleep dominating the first half of the night. 

Which is better, REM or deep sleep?

REM and deep sleep each have their own important functions, so one isn’t “better” than the other. Deep sleep is vital for physical restoration, growth and repair, and memory consolidation. REM sleep, on the other hand, plays a crucial role in learning, memory, and mood regulation. Your body needs both types of sleep to function optimally.

Does melatonin increase deep sleep?

Melatonin is a natural hormone your body produces to regulate your sleep-wake cycle. While melatonin can help you fall asleep, research on its impact on deep sleep is still mixed. It’s always advisable to consult a healthcare professional before starting new supplements, including melatonin.

How many hours of deep sleep should I have?

While the specific amount can vary, adults generally need about one to two hours, or 20% to 25%, of their total sleep to be in the deep sleep stage. However, various factors can influence this, including age (deep sleep decreases as you age), lifestyle (diet, exercise, stress), and overall health. If you’re consistently waking up feeling tired or unrefreshed, it could indicate that you’re not getting sufficient deep sleep.


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